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		By: Nancy		</title>
		<link>https://www.iblindness.org/4131/am-i-proud-of-my-vision-problem/#comment-13898</link>

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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Apr 2017 15:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Anna, thanks for your thoughts. Yes, social pressure not to be too full of ourselves plays a part here. In the past when I was praised for something, I usually pointed out that even though I was good at X, my vision was poor, to make the other person feel better. That just kept me hanging on to that limited view of myself. Now I keep the focus on the positive and on growth, what I can do now that I couldn&#039;t do before, while realizing that in some areas I still have a long way to go to be happy with myself. Plus when people comment on me, it&#039;s often a hidden comment about them and their insecurities -- &quot;You&#039;re so slim!&quot; really means &quot;I&#039;m feeling fat&quot; for example. So I always try to project acceptance and reassurance. We&#039;re all doing the best we know how.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Anna, thanks for your thoughts. Yes, social pressure not to be too full of ourselves plays a part here. In the past when I was praised for something, I usually pointed out that even though I was good at X, my vision was poor, to make the other person feel better. That just kept me hanging on to that limited view of myself. Now I keep the focus on the positive and on growth, what I can do now that I couldn&#8217;t do before, while realizing that in some areas I still have a long way to go to be happy with myself. Plus when people comment on me, it&#8217;s often a hidden comment about them and their insecurities &#8212; &#8220;You&#8217;re so slim!&#8221; really means &#8220;I&#8217;m feeling fat&#8221; for example. So I always try to project acceptance and reassurance. We&#8217;re all doing the best we know how.</p>
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		By: Anna		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Apr 2017 06:37:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.iblindness.org/4131/am-i-proud-of-my-vision-problem/#comment-13843&quot;&gt;Nancy&lt;/a&gt;.

Maybe it&#039;s also that ous vices and physical problems are easier to see. Myopia or an injury or a smoking habit are something you deal with everyday, easy to spot. So it becomes something our brain occupies itself with. Good traits are often things that are only seen under certain circumstances.
Another thought: we&#039;re taught that praising ouselves is bad, humility is a good thing. So what else are we to talk about than who is worse off or doing more stupid things? It might be an acceptable way to brag ;)
Anyway, interesting article and comments.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.iblindness.org/4131/am-i-proud-of-my-vision-problem/#comment-13843">Nancy</a>.</p>
<p>Maybe it&#8217;s also that ous vices and physical problems are easier to see. Myopia or an injury or a smoking habit are something you deal with everyday, easy to spot. So it becomes something our brain occupies itself with. Good traits are often things that are only seen under certain circumstances.<br />
Another thought: we&#8217;re taught that praising ouselves is bad, humility is a good thing. So what else are we to talk about than who is worse off or doing more stupid things? It might be an acceptable way to brag 😉<br />
Anyway, interesting article and comments.</p>
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		By: Nancy		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Apr 2017 21:55:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Irina, I agree about possibly seeing a vice as an expression of their energy. And maybe when they want to be proud of something, they look at themselves and it&#039;s easier to find a negative trait than a positive one. People are so interesting!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Irina, I agree about possibly seeing a vice as an expression of their energy. And maybe when they want to be proud of something, they look at themselves and it&#8217;s easier to find a negative trait than a positive one. People are so interesting!</p>
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		By: Irina		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Apr 2017 20:23:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.iblindness.org/4131/am-i-proud-of-my-vision-problem/#comment-13773&quot;&gt;David&lt;/a&gt;.

that goes quite well with what Nancy said in her article too, and I was thinking, about people being proud of their particular vice (you do hear this a lot, like someone bragging about smoking a whole packet of cigarettes a day and someone else saying, &#039;ha, that&#039;s nothing, I smoke two!&#039;) I have often wondered why people brag about that kind of thing, but you could be right - they&#039;re &#039;proud&#039; of what they subconsciously perceive as an expression of their energy and strength... lots of food for thought here guys, thanks!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.iblindness.org/4131/am-i-proud-of-my-vision-problem/#comment-13773">David</a>.</p>
<p>that goes quite well with what Nancy said in her article too, and I was thinking, about people being proud of their particular vice (you do hear this a lot, like someone bragging about smoking a whole packet of cigarettes a day and someone else saying, &#8216;ha, that&#8217;s nothing, I smoke two!&#8217;) I have often wondered why people brag about that kind of thing, but you could be right &#8211; they&#8217;re &#8216;proud&#8217; of what they subconsciously perceive as an expression of their energy and strength&#8230; lots of food for thought here guys, thanks!</p>
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		By: Nancy L. Neff		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nancy L. Neff]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Apr 2017 23:24:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[David, good point. I&#039;ve always used vigorous exercise to get out some of my stress, and once I discovered tools like meditation and EFT to calm my nervous system, I became a much healthier person, and also nicer to be around. The eyes aren&#039;t separate, they&#039;re part of the whole body, so if your body or mind is stressed your eyes will probably be too.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David, good point. I&#8217;ve always used vigorous exercise to get out some of my stress, and once I discovered tools like meditation and EFT to calm my nervous system, I became a much healthier person, and also nicer to be around. The eyes aren&#8217;t separate, they&#8217;re part of the whole body, so if your body or mind is stressed your eyes will probably be too.</p>
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		By: David		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Apr 2017 20:27:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Sometimes I have to say, no, I don&#039;t want to see your scar, and I wish I hadn&#039;t scrolled myself into your ghastly bloody injury pic on my Facebook feed. Knock it off, people! I&#039;ll take your word for it how tough you are, no pics required, I promise!
I think we look for struggle. Our society has taken us away from the dangers of getting killed by hungry beasts or an enemy tribe, and we look for some kind of physical struggle. We need that outlet. We have the energy built in to deal with it, and it has to be used. Maybe sometimes vision problems and other ailments are what happens. Not to mention domestic violence. Not that it explains crime, but it&#039;s that pent up energy that we don&#039;t always have an obvious and accepted way to release.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes I have to say, no, I don&#8217;t want to see your scar, and I wish I hadn&#8217;t scrolled myself into your ghastly bloody injury pic on my Facebook feed. Knock it off, people! I&#8217;ll take your word for it how tough you are, no pics required, I promise!<br />
I think we look for struggle. Our society has taken us away from the dangers of getting killed by hungry beasts or an enemy tribe, and we look for some kind of physical struggle. We need that outlet. We have the energy built in to deal with it, and it has to be used. Maybe sometimes vision problems and other ailments are what happens. Not to mention domestic violence. Not that it explains crime, but it&#8217;s that pent up energy that we don&#8217;t always have an obvious and accepted way to release.</p>
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		By: Nancy		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nancy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2017 13:17:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you, my friend. If you see that I&#039;m self-aware, it must be in you too. :) Enjoy your day!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you, my friend. If you see that I&#8217;m self-aware, it must be in you too. 🙂 Enjoy your day!</p>
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		By: Barbara Sinclair		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2017 12:10:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is a beautiful article, Nancy, with great insight (pardon the pun!) You are truly one of the most self-aware people I know.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a beautiful article, Nancy, with great insight (pardon the pun!) You are truly one of the most self-aware people I know.</p>
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