Comments on: Fight The Blur? Accept The Blur?

By: Nancy

Nancy — Wed, 26 Apr 2017 12:21:11 +0000

In reply to Alvina. Alvina, good for you! If you are seeing clearer vision, believe in your experience, and accept the gift. :) Yes, you are practicing a new habit of becoming a clear-sighted person, and like any new habit, it may take a little time until if feels like your New Normal. Just keep going forward, one step a a time, and enjoy whatever you see.

By: Nancy

Nancy — Wed, 26 Apr 2017 12:16:16 +0000

Dr. Cyber, I can’t say what’s normal for you. If you’re getting clearer vision, even temporarily, I’d say that’s good! Sometimes one or both eyes tear a bit when I’m meditating, which I think is a release of tension I didn’t know I had. I also occasionally get tearing when I do eye chart practice, not often. Keep paying attention so you can become the expert about your own eyes.

By: Dr. Cyber

Dr. Cyber — Wed, 26 Apr 2017 10:48:18 +0000

Often when I get a flash of extra good vision like you got my right eye gets wet, and sometimes I even get a tear. This only happens to my right eye, which is the much better eye of the two and possibly the only one to get flashes of good vision. Is this normal? I think that relaxing my eye makes it get tears. I wonder if other people have this.

By: Alvina

Alvina — Wed, 26 Apr 2017 04:38:32 +0000

Dear Nancy, thank you for your articles. Every article describes some things which are the same for me (-4). I haven’t worn glasses for 1.5 years and every day now I experience flashes of clear vision, during which all my body relaxes. I experience it as you put this as the huge gift. At such moments, I am at the edge between believing that I can see well and feeling that it could not be true. A new habit of clear vision and the old one of not seeing well are competing at such moments, but the old one seems to win this competition. I am looking forward for a day when my new habit of seeing well get strong enough.

By: Nancy

Nancy — Thu, 20 Apr 2017 14:29:12 +0000

In reply to beno. Beno, accepting that you need glasses to see some things right now (not all things, and not forever) can free up that "fighting Reality" energy for something more productive. Like vision improvement! I think if you're your true self instead of pretending you're OK when you're not, your natural sexiness will show.

By: beno

beno — Thu, 20 Apr 2017 09:23:52 +0000

I have found that accepting that I need glasses to see sharply in my case was a tremendous act of self acceptance, acceptance that I currently have to live with a very prevalent distortion. I wear my glasses a lot more now, of course I am not so sexy this way but I am opening my heart to accept the fact that at the moment I am not flawless.

By: Nancy

Nancy — Wed, 19 Apr 2017 21:36:41 +0000

Beryl yes, me too. I’ve written before about “Accept it, don’t fight it”, and I’m just seeing that doesn’t have to be resigned defeated acceptance, it can be appreciative acceptance. Which of course then feels like self-acceptance. Every little thing really is all right.

By: Beryl

Beryl — Wed, 19 Apr 2017 20:23:06 +0000

Thank you Nancy. As I read your post the phrase… ‘whatever we resist, persists’ springs to mind. I am putting this practice of acceptance of ‘what is’ into many areas of my life – though had not thought about applying it to my eyes it.